And- just to put all of your problems (and mine) into perspective:
http://minimumcover.wordpress.com/2011/09/16/and-then-there-was-silence/
It's quite upsetting- so give it a miss if you're already feeling miserable.
http://minimumcover.wordpress.com/2011/09/16/and-then-there-was-silence/
It's quite upsetting- so give it a miss if you're already feeling miserable.