I don't know the people who are supposed to be buying this house or considering to buy it. I was told that some family from that part of the world and who are living here were doing that. The word
Asian was thrown in to make any word to make any word describing locals from town or the city & their suburbs less appropriate. As words to describe people from in or out of state.
I'm not trying to be racist on purpose & don't even understand the slur, I made. It's just a word to describe a particular ethnicity. It bothers me that people are so sensitive about those words, when they aren't even slang. What really bothers me is that
Transsexuals are slurred by the use of words like
Tranny &
She-Male, while the latter are just innocent words combined. They be on it about former word be more of slang term. Yet, still quite innocent. So, when in polite conversation with one of those people, I try to avoid the slur. However dumb I think that is. You'd think that once a certain minority have been allowed rights, that they may be more lenient themselves towards the uninformed & people like me who don't like having their grasp of the English language made out to be impolite to their sensitivities. When all I really wanted to do was simply address them by their condition.
Even saying that now. I guess that could be offensive, to address people by their sexuality. Even to complain about might be a slur to them. The are that sensitive about it. Yet the words
She &
Male alone bear no personal offense to me in what I know of our language. It's not like I used any of the definitely offensive four letter word to bluntly insult them. Anytime they silence or ban or just caution me (I frequent the adult chat-room
Chaturbate quite a lot & to mainly just talk to female & those who were once male (It's a slur if you say that as well, I think!)) for use of the word
She-Male raises my hackles as I just think they have set another standard that isn't even a legitimate one & they may know (Snickering behind their hands about it!) that they have just redefined the use of the language in way that makes talking to them more awkward. If they didn't fly into a hissy-fit over this or over a lot of things. I think they may find acceptance over that life choice easier & as their minority or majority already have.
Where was I....pay day today

I hope this conversation isn't read to be offensive, because I chose to discuss language using those people (Man, I feel like I'm walking through a mine field here, & especially with them!) a topic & excuse to make this part of the forum more adult. I've been itching to air my grievances about that without offending anybody.
I just wish people would get over it and move on & not be slighted at all & then this politeness is seen as offensive in itself, because people then believe that you think your better than everybody else. In the end, you might as well call people names of the four letter variety to prove how human I really am.