Not sure what my point is but I thought it strange that someone who shows compassion in one area of life gets it totally wrong in others.
It's the eternal contradiction of humanity, isn't it? So many lovely people I know have their prickish side, and so many utter pricks are capable of surprising decency.
I can think of a number of old friends who are otherwise open-minded, gentle, generous people, but each have one specific area of bitter nastiness that they never seem to outgrow: sectarian, homophobic, anti-Traveller, respectively.
You wouldn't know anything about it until you push that specific button. And it really wouldn't be the one you'd associate with that flaw: the homophobe for example has at least two long-term close friends who are gay, but to hear her talk about other LGBTQ+ people in her profession or public life is genuinely shocking.
So I avoid those topics, and increasingly over the years, them. It's sad, and I wonder are they even consciously aware of their own attitudes. I then wonder what
my awful hidden-button-ism is. Possibly overly aggressive condescending atheism? Can't say I'm very tolerant of golf either. But I'm sure it's something far less innocuous.